In a study conducted in 2009 by Harris Interactive, “82 percent of the people surveyed said they’d witnessed disrespectful and annoying cell phone use in public.”
One of my biggest frustrations concerning cell phone users is the sharing of personal information in public places. Statistics support that “55 percent would rather you not discuss personal or gross stuff around them” (Harris Interactive).
It’s not necessary to spill the juicy details of your personal life while out in public. If it’s something you wouldn’t tell your grandma, no one else wants to hear it.
Despite your eagerness to fill your friend in on the adventures of Friday night, hold that cell phone conversation until you’re somewhere more private.
Elevators and other confined spaces are not invitations to use your cell phone, especially when talking about your life story. You may laugh that I even have to say that.
However, in two minute elevator rides I’ve learned more about people from their cell phone conversations than I would ever care to know.
It seems that the people who overshare also have a problem of being a “cell phone screamer.” This includes those who feel the need, for whatever reason, to shout into their phone. This is certainly a frustration shared by many as “63 percent don’t like it when people nearby speak loudly on phones” (Harris Interactive).
If you can’t hear the person or they can’t hear you, end the conversation and call them back at a better time.
The last situation to be wary of is texting a friend or surfing the internet while hanging out with someone. It sends the impression that you are either bored or would rather be somewhere else.
If you can’t take your eyes off of your cell phone, be nice enough to excuse yourself. Trying to stay engaged in a conversation with someone who is absorbed by their phone is like seeking advice from your cat.
One student shared personal experiences of competing with a cell phone for attention.
“When people use their cell phones as a form of escape, that’s really annoying,” Jon Grammatico (junior, Gender Studies).
“Avoid anything where it could be deemed as disrespectful, especially situations where you’re supposed to be giving your undivided attention,”Grammatico said.
The way that you use your cell phone shapes the way that people perceive you.
When you’re unsure about proper cell phone etiquette for a particular situation, take into consideration the context and the person you are interacting with.
Glares and scoffs are always a good hint that you are not using good cell phone etiquette or crossing some boundaries.